I don’t know about you, but I find that talking about drugs and alcohol with your kid is really, really hard. Even more difficult than talking about sex. And especially when I partook in some serious drugs and alcohol. I think it’s that whole “do as I say, not I as I did” double standard that really makes me struggle. How can I tell her to “just say no” when all I was saying, “yes and yes and yes again?”
I started doing drugs when I was 14 years old (the same age that Paige is right now). I remember the first time distinctly. I was in the bathroom of an all ages dance club and this half-Japanese girl named Karla opened up a piece of tin foil, split the contents and instructed me to swallow. I didn’t even ask what it was and it didn’t even occur to me to say “no.”
Karla was 19 and already out of school. She had a karman ghia. She was the epitome of cool to me. I wasn’t about to loose face that night and let on that I didn’t know what the hell I was doing. But really, I had no fucking clue what I was doing. When I look back retrospectively, I now think, “What the hell was a 19 year old hanging out with a 14 year old for?” It was so messed up. And all sorts of trouble ensued.
In this week’s Momversation episode, I ask the question: “Should you tell your kids about past drug use?” Daphne Brogdon of Cool Mom and Momversation guest Kierna Mayo from Cafe Mom chime in to give me some advice:
And if you’re wondering, it was mushrooms. And it blew my mind up.
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