Posts Tagged ‘Living Authentically’

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Internets + Facebook = Awesome

Friday, November 7th, 2008

Over the past couple of weeks I have gotten back in touch with two friends (Hi Melissa! Hi Andrea!) that I haven’t talked to in years.  I have Facebook to thank for these serendipitous reunions and I can’t help but to think that their entrance back into my life is a manifestation of the positive life changes that I am making. It’s amazing how happiness reveals itself when you surrender to the possibilities. So woo-woo sounding, I know.

In conjunction to these great events I’ve also met a ton of new people through the internets and blogosphere, some who I have met and some who I have not met yet.  It is so great to make connections with other mothers, writers, tech enthusiasts, crazy folks and just a huge crosscut of people from all over the world. And all through this little 15.4 inch laptop screen with a DSL connection. Amazing. (more…)

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Living Out Loud

Saturday, November 1st, 2008

I think it’s so brave when people live their lives out in the open – exposing all their goodness and messiness for everyone to see.  It’s not that these people don’t care about what other people think … it’s just that they are propelled to do things despite what other people think.  I used to think that I was like that in my 20s, but I now realize that it was just youthful exuberance and foolhardiness masked as confidence or assuredness. I’ve never been at this place before (that not giving a shit about what other people think place). It’s freeing. (more…)

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Start Over >> Press Play

Friday, October 3rd, 2008

Okay, now that the puppy love affair with blogging is over, we can now proceed to what I like to call, “the maintenance phase.”  When I started blogging back in August, it was with a type of fervor you often see in a new relationship.  I was writing daily posts, sometimes two, sometimes three (most of which I’ve taken down).  If I wasn’t blogging, I was reading blogs or commenting on blogs or even reading about how to blog!  I love you, no I love you more!

EVERYTHING became blogging fodder … I’m riding the bus, I’ll write about it!  I’m eating a sandwich, who doesn’t want to know about that!  In the first month I had almost 800 unique visitors and 1,600 page views. I was writing and people were reading and this was (and still is) inconceivable to me.  You must understand that most of the time I am talking to my daughter and she takes “not listening to me” to a whole new level.  It’s so sad, but true.  So to have a venue where I put something out there and people actually read it – well it’s gratifying.

But like with any relationship, after about the first month you start thinking in terms of longevity.  Do I really want to be in this relationship?  Maybe we should take a break.  And so I took a break.  What I found, of course, is that I really like writing.  I missed it.  So maybe I’m not as spiritually evolved as I would like to be.  Or maybe I’m not the best writer.  Who cares?  I, like the rest of you, am just trying to find a little piece of happiness.

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